When I was eight years old, my Father bought a picnic table at a yard sale for a dollar. A whole picnic table, complete with two separate benches.
For one dollar.
He brought the thing home in the back of the old station wagon – the one with fake wood paneling on the side – and summoned his wife and sons to examine another tangible expression of true thrift. “Gather round boys and have a look. They wanted twenty-five dollars for this down at The Sears. Can you believe it? Twenty-five dollars! Your old man just picked it up on the street for a buck. See what happens when you keep your eyes open?”
My father was always keeping his eyes open for this or that, and lately, a picnic table had been on his radar. This one was made of a suspicious pine, soft and light enough for an eight year old to carry across the front lawn. It was held together with glue and staples, and to a larger extent, a thick coat of bright red paint. It was pure crap, but the price was right, and somehow, two years later, it was still standing there under the old Maple, dry-rotted, and listing to the left. It was also missing two planks on the surface, making it less of a table and more of a sieve.
My Mother had grown tired of watching hamburgers and hot dogs slip through the cracks, and desired a table with a solid surface. “Am I asking too much, John? I know it’s terribly unconventional, but really, couldn’t we just try eating on a table without any holes in the top?” My father maintained the table was just fine the way it was. “What’s the big deal? It’s not like we entertain out here.” With a staple gun and three roofing shingles, the offending gaps were covered, as my mother looked sadly on. “There you go, Peg. Good as new!”
The next time my father took his usual seat next to Phil, the moldy bench collapsed beneath him with a loud crunch, sending him straight to the ground, and launching my little brother skyward. Phil was only three at the time, and skinny. He seemed to hover in midair for a moment, before crashing to earth. “For God’s sake John, the boy could have landed on a fork! We need a new table!”
The following day, my father attempted to shore up the broken bench with two by fours. The original wood was too rotten to hold a nail, so he wrapped everything together with duct tape. Just like new. When the other bench crumbled a week later, it was Scott who plunged downward with a muffled scream and a mouthful of partially chewed chicken. He hit the ground hard, knocking air from his lungs and chicken into his windpipe.
“He’s choking, John! Do something!”
Grabbing one of Scott’s ankles in each hand, my Father held him upside down, and began to shake him over the table. When the wad finally broke free, it exploded in a spray of poultry, most of which sailed through the air and landed in my mother’s hair. “Nice try John, but your son’s still alive. Why don’t we just eat on the interstate? It might be safer.”
Under increasing pressure, my Father grudgingly began the process of “pricing” new picnic tables. (My father does not shop. He “prices.” Rarely is anything actually purchased.) He began with flea markets and yard sales, canvassing the area for bargains. When that yielded nothing, he made another pilgrimage to Sears, Montgomery Ward, and the local hardware store, where his combined lifetime purchases added up to a grand total of nothing. “It’ll be a cold day in you-know-where when I give Monkey Wards good money for a picnic table we don’t even need. We’ll make do.”
And so the days progressed, until the contrivance in our front yard could no longer be confused with an actual table. More duct tape than wood, it teetered precariously on its last original leg. New additions included a car jack, for supplemental support, and the front seat of a pick-up truck brought in to replace one of the original benches – perched optimistically on several cinder blocks. It was actually kind of comfortable, but had a tendency to flip backwards if you rocked on it. In this way, dining al fresco became a kind of adventure, a sort of ‘musical chairs’ in reverse. Gathered around the doomed and rickety picnic table, ears cocked, my brothers and I listened for the ultimate crack! that would send us all plunging to the ground under the weight of some dubious pot roast, or unnamed casserole.
The final meal around the old table took place on a muggy Father’s Day in 1972, coincidentally, the same day President Nixon signed into Law a proclamation declaring the third Sunday of every June to be henceforth celebrated as such. My father greeted this news with complete indifference. He eschews most holidays; especially those conceived by Hallmark, blessed by an elected official, and ostensibly all about him.
Nevertheless, we celebrated President Nixon’s First Official Father’s Day in true Baltimore style, with the ritualistic sacrifice of several dozen Maryland Blue Crabs. My father had caught them in a creek off The Chesapeake, brought them home in a bushel basket, and steamed them alive in crock-pot full of onions and Old Bay seasoning. Now, they were spread out before his family, across the surface of the decomposing table. Knives and forks were replaced with ice picks and wooden mallets, and the promise of calamity loomed higher than ever.
Much has been written about the dangers of crab fishing, but in my experience, eating them is far more hazardous than catching them. This may have something to do with the fact that steamed crabs are served at roughly a thousand degrees, and tend to melt your fingers when you snap their backs off and start digging around in their molten guts. It’s almost as though they resent being eaten, and continue resisting even when dead. Their edges are razor sharp and pointed, and the Old Bay seasoning, while delicious, feels like gasoline in the inevitable cuts and puncture wounds.
For my Father, retrieving the savory meat from this nautical Rubik’s Cube is a highly personal, epicurean sacrament. He likes to see himself as an Indian skinning a buffalo, or an Eskimo flensing a whale. Ignoring the heat, he grabs one bare handed, flips it over, and slides a bloody thumb under the “apron,” a piece of cartilage that extends from the crabs outer shell down onto it’s belly. Once situated, he rolls his hand backward, removing the shell with a grisly “pop,” sending contrails of boiling fluid arcing in all directions. Into the shells cavity, he dumps the lungs, which he scoops out in one easy motion.
Then, he snaps the body in half, exposing a maze of honeycombs and secret chambers, each concealing tiny pockets of hidden goodness. Nothing is wasted. And while others eat, while they pick, my father waits until the crab is cleaned and gutted completely. Only then will he enjoy the fruits of his labor.
Yellow “mustard” oozes from unseen compartments, which he licks away without hesitation. The large claws are quickly removed and set aside in a special pile, “for later.” Then he removes the back fin, a large hunk of white meat that comes loose with relative ease. Most people eat the back fin the moment it’s freed from its nook – they simply can’t help themselves. But my father places it gently off to the side, a golf ball sized hunk of succulent temptation. Then, the work begins.
With surgical precision, he maneuvers his ice pick into every hidden chamber of the baffling anatomy, removing tiny pieces of unseen booty, and stacking them neatly in separate piles. A lesser enthusiast might ignore these smaller bits, but not my father.
For my brothers and me, the best part about eating these prehistoric bottom-feeders is the abdication of etiquette. Spattered with random bits of flying fodder, we swing our mallets and slurp the meat from stubborn claws with no fear of reprisal. Even my mother, who can make Emily Post look like a drunken crack whore, will pick at her teeth with the tips of claws, and spit tiny bits of shell back onto the table without apology.
Aside from the normal bleeding, there was nothing remarkable about our last meal around the doomed table. No one fell on an ice pick. No one smashed his finger with a mallet. In fact, the table was still standing when the rain started, forcing us inside, and making June 18th, 1972 a rather forgettable afternoon. Far more memorable, were the events immediately preceding and following the day in question.
As it turns out, several hours before we began to celebrate President Nixon’s First Official Father’s Day, five burglars were letting themselves in to the Democratic Headquarters in The Watergate Office Complex, setting into motion a chain of events that would dramatically alter the political landscape in our country. And even more interesting, to us anyway, was the break-in about to occur in our own backyard, the one that freed my mother of the old picnic table once and for all, in a manner far more spectacular than any of us ever imagined.
It rained all afternoon, harder by the hour, and that night in bed, the sound was so loud against the roof I had difficulty eavesdropping in my usual fashion. Often, sounds and conversation from my parent’s bedroom would filter up through the laundry chute, but it was hard to make out just what I was hearing over the downpour. My father said something about a “nasty looking broad named Agnes making her way up the coast.”
I took this to mean that another mysterious relative was dropping by for a surprise visit. My Dad had one regular brother, three half-brothers, three regular sisters, a step sister, a father, one regular mother, and a step mother. Naturally, they all had wives and husbands and cousins twice removed, giving me a family tree that looked more like a wall of ivy. Agnes however, was not some long-lost Aunt. She was a tropical storm, recently upgraded to a hurricane, and apparently headed our way.
The next morning, the sun didn’t rise. Black clouds and lightening filled the sky, which seemed an odd thing to see while eating waffles. When the wind began to blow, I had questions. “Dad,” I asked, “why are hurricanes named after girls?”
“Go ask your Mother.” My father was glued to the TV, where a somber-faced weatherman was discussing the possibility that Agnes might “make the turn,” and enter the “mouth of Chesapeake Bay.” If that happens,” he intoned, it’s “Katie bar the door!”
“Dad,” I asked, “who is Katie?” Anthropomorphisms confused me, as did metaphors. Bays have mouths? Since when? Is this “Katie” friendly with “Agnes?”
My father was not taking questions, and when Agnes finally arrived, there was no time for answers. She was a most unusual June hurricane, and indeed, a very nasty broad. She made the turn as feared, sliding into the mouth of the Bay, slipping down her throat, and then, shooting over to Trumps Mill Road, across the old wooden bridge, and straight up the hill to our backyard.
For three days, the rain came down in buckets. I know this, because an actual bucket blew through our front window. The babbling brook that bordered our property no longer babbled, but spoke in a loud, deliberate tone. It seemed to be saying, “I’m coming to drown you all, and wash your house away.”
On the second day, the creek jumped its banks, and slowly crept up the hill, surrounding our farmhouse with brown, churning water. From the top of our hill, we could do nothing but watch the floodwater rise. When the electricity went out, our sump pump stopped working, and my father bolted into the cellar, and began to bail furiously. I suppose we should have been scared to death, but with my mother playing the piano upstairs, and my father singing, “What Will We Do With a Drunken Sailor?” as he bailed, things were more weird than frightening. Late that night, the rain let up and the water started to recede. When dawn finally arrived, we ventured outside to see what Agnes had left behind.
Imagine a junkyard, inverted, and shaken. There were chests of drawers with clothes still inside, and an empty cash register. An Oriental rug dangled from the mulberry tree. We were entirely surrounded with flotsam and jetsam, swept up from towns and neighborhoods north of Baltimore, and dumped in our yard. Scott found a pogo stick and a naked mannequin, which freaked him out. There was a bag of golf clubs in the flowerbed, and a dead pig in the driveway, but it was my Mother who first spotted the phenomenon in the front yard.
There, beneath the old Maple, was a brand new picnic table.
It was enormous – a majestic assemblage of white oak, painted a sensible forest-green, and held together with man-sized bolts and twelve-penny nails. Around one of its muscular legs was wrapped a heavy chain, which stretched out behind it like a prehensile tail, giving it an animated, renegade quality – a fugitive picnic table, on the lamb! It was quite simply, the picnic table of my mother’s dreams, squatting serenely in the surrounding detritus, inexplicably delivered to the precise spot last occupied by its dilapidated predecessor.
The reality took a moment to comprehend, and judging from the way my Mother’s mouth kept opening and closing, she was still in the moment. “Michael. Go get your father.” I found my Dad on the other side of the house, trying to explain the actual purpose of mannequins to my weeping brother.
“Hey! Dad! Come quick! There’s a giant picnic table under the tree where the old picnic table used to be and this one is really big and it’s gotta chain hanging from it and you gotta see it!” My enthusiasm must have intrigued him, because he left Scott with the naked mannequin and followed me back to the Maple tree, where his wife continued to regard the unlikely sight in much the same way that Moses might have beheld the Burning Bush.
“John, can you believe it?It’s a miracle.”
Skeptical that a Higher Power would choose to bless him with outdoor furniture, my Father approached the table warily, kicking its legs like the tires on a used car.He appraised the attached chain, then spied the stenciled lettering burned into the wood.Property of The Department of Recreation and Parks.
“Don’t get too attached, Peggy – this table is Baltimore County Property.”
My mother was aghast. “Are you kidding? It’s in our yard, John. It’s under our tree. What do you want to do, strap it to the roof and drive it back to its rightful BBQ pit? This table found us. It’s staying.”
My mother, not normally inclined to assign Providence any amount of credit (or blame), was clearly impressed by the statistical improbability that such a weird coincidence could occur in her front yard, as was I. The odds that a giant flood could accidentally carry one table off to oblivion while replacing it with a superior version were just incalculable, and seeing it with my own eyes did more to suggest the presence of a Higher Power than any parable I’d heard in eightyears of Sunday School. If not delivered by the hand of God, it had clearly been sent by somebody, and rejecting a heavenly favor or cosmic endowment seemed boarder-line rude, if not dangerous.
Unfortunately, my father’s scruples are on par with his frugality. He was not moved by any theory of divine intervention, or swayed by my mother’s fallback position, which argued that possession was nine tenths of the law, and in cases of extraordinary coincidence, perhaps more. After much debate, it came as no great surprise when he called State Police with “information on the missing table.”
Surprisingly, the officer who answered wasn’t up to speed with the specifics of this particular case. “I’m sorry sir, did you say a picnic table washed up in your yard?”
“Yes, that’s right. A large, green picnic table. It’s very nice. I think it belongs to one of state parks north of town.”
My father was perplexed by his lack of urgency. “Look officer, I don’t think you understand. This is an expensive item. It’s also brand new, and constructed of the very best materials. Somebody’s going to want it back.”
“Maybe,” shouted my Mother, “the police are a little preoccupied with all the looting going on?”
Undeterred, my father left a detailed description and added, “I just wanted you to know that the table is here. And that we didn’t take it.”
The cop took our address, and told my Father he’d pass the information on to the park service, who would no doubt drop whatever they were doing and send a couple of Rangers over at the first available opportunity to retrieve the table.
“Yeah, well, you better send four,” he replied. “The thing weighs a ton.”
The next day was clear and beautiful, the way it often is shortly after Mother Nature tries to kill you. Our house was trashed, and our yard looked like an upside down dump, but underneath the lopsided Maple, there was little to complain about.
The Hurricane Agnes Miracle Table had been scrubbed clean, and it was magnificent. My father agreed that using it in the short-term was ethically acceptable, so five days after President Nixon’s first official Father’s Day was rained out, we picked up where we left off. My mother covered the smooth oak planks with The News American, onto which my father dumped a bushel of steamed crabs, piping hot, and smelling of Old Bay.
For once, there was space to spare – and not just for the crabs. There was room for potato salad and ears of corn and thick slices of ripe tomatoes, fresh from my grandmother’s garden. There was also room for my grandmother, and my grandfather, as well as my brothers and me, a second-cousin whose name I don’t recall, my friend John from down the street, and a mannequin named Molly that Scott had grown weirdly attached to.
And of course, there was room for my Father, who was spread out at the far end, cracking crabs for my little brothers, and glancing over his shoulder, waiting for the park rangers to come speeding up the long driveway and reclaim their missing property.
Naturally, no one ever came for the table, and over the years, he would eventually come to see it as his own. For now though, his good fortune would be tempered with worry and gratitude – two qualities that I’ve come to associate with good Dad’s everywhere.
That’s how I remember the third week of June, 1972. A president, a hurricane, a flooded basement, the disappearance of a rotten picnic table, and the mysterious emergence of a giant replacement that may or may not have been sent from above. It was a confusing time for a ten-year old, but thankfully, the old man was with us every step of the way, keeping an eye on the bottom line, his kids on the straight and narrow, and his wife dining al fresco, in the style to which she had become accustomed.
Thirty-seven years later, Presidents and picnic tables have come and gone, but the important stuff endures. And even though I had to ship them from Louisiana, it makes me smile to know that this Father’s Day, a table full of steamed crabs will once again mark the occasion. And not one morsel will be left behind.
Happy Father’s Day